Party Thread (Archive IV)

romanceismusic · Post by **romanceismusic** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:22 am

so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?

Flautapantera · Post by **Flautapantera** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:23 am

romanceismusic wrote:so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?

No way! I'm not going anywhere for a while!

lordgreystoke422 · Post by **lordgreystoke422** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:23 am

romanceismusic wrote:so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?

SEE..THAT is what I am RAILING against here...
A HOUSE DIVIDED WILL FALL..
think about it guys..

thejyav · Post by **thejyav** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:24 am

romanceismusic wrote:so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?

thats what i was wondering noodles are you trying to replace this pervy town?

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:24 am

Flautapantera wrote:
rachelalexis wrote:I don't think I'll ever have those kind of friendships again. I think it's because they started when we were too young to think about sex in any way more than stupid jokes. So physical contact, whether between guys and girls or girls and girls, was never labelled as trying to do anything salacious. But now that we're grown every relationship has that undertone, and if you're a grown woman who's holding hands with another woman it's seen as a lesbian thing instead of just a companionship/friendship thing.

[/rant]
I never had that close of a relationship with boys when I was younger. Sure, I had friends who were boys but we never were allowed to hang out in that way. I really feel I've missed so much from that deprivation. Also, my parents were uber-strict and never let me have or attend sleepovers when I was younger. I know that affected me greatly because, when I first moved out, I was terrified to live on my own. I was so sheltered that I couldn't place myself anywhere but under my parents' roof.
But now I took us off tangent...

I'd hold your hand in public and I wouldn't care who noticed!

I'm so glad you understand what I was trying to say. I was typing it thinking I sounded like someone who was either very sexually active in high school (uhm, not even close, I didn't even get my first REAL kiss til senior year, and I was drunk at the time!) or who was embarassed about how they used to act, where it really was neither.
Aww, that's too bad honey. I would let you come over for a sleepover! My house was always the sleepover house. We were one of the few families in town (lived in a kinda rural area) and we had a big house while my parents were still together. And they never had a problem with guys spending the night. I remember my ex had a HUGE problem with one of my guy friends because we were so affectionate and he didn't understand. Granted, right after we broke up I found out that this guy had had a big crush on me and he started trying to make something of it, so maybe he picked up on that rather than the affectionate thing.
So I'm sure your parents would have freaked if they knew that you were sleeping in a bed with one of your female friends with a guy between you two, huh? That was a typical sleepover at my place, we'd all get on the futon and cuddle up, it was that way since 6th grade and continued through high school. Heck, sometimes when I go back to my old hometown it goes right back into us holding each other without giving it a second thought. (Which is wierd, to see someone you haven't seen in three years or so and within ten minutes they have their arms around your waist and their head on your shoulder. If it was anyone but these friends I'd flip!)
It's amazing the things you give up by growing older and becoming sexualized in our culture, because all of a sudden everything you do when it comes to affection is about getting some. At least according to other people. *sigh*

So how long ago did you move out? You still feel a little wierd living alone?

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:25 am

Flautapantera wrote:
rachelalexis wrote:Hey hey hey, don't be generalizing to the whole thread. I have a feeling most of us will stick around, at least the ones who've been here a while and feel invested in not only the story but each other.
You are such an eloquent typist...*hugs tight*

Awww, I lurve my FP! *hugs super tight!*

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:26 am

thejyav wrote:how do I get in on the hugfest

Why? Do you need a hug? *opens arms to offer one*

Flautapantera · Post by **Flautapantera** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:26 am

thejyav wrote:
romanceismusic wrote:so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?
thats what i was wondering noodles are you trying to replace this pervy town?

The Party Thread cannot and will not be replaced by a new forum or thread. My hope is that those who were here longer (mostly the Originals) will have a greater understanding of the circumstances presenting themselves.

There isn't a substitute. Just because another forum was created doesn't mean this one is disavowed or hopeless.

thejyav · Post by **thejyav** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:27 am

rachelalexis wrote:
thejyav wrote:how do I get in on the hugfest
Why? Do you need a hug? *opens arms to offer one*

Accepts the hug...when is a hug not needed is the better question

GoodGollyItsHolly · Post by **GoodGollyItsHolly** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:28 am

We should hug all day long.. we can get through this girls.. we will help eachother!

thejyav · Post by **thejyav** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:28 am

Flautapantera wrote:
thejyav wrote:
romanceismusic wrote:so now that theres a new pervy town, is this one going bye bye?
thats what i was wondering noodles are you trying to replace this pervy town?
The Party Thread cannot and will not be replaced by a new forum or thread. My hope is that those who were here longer (mostly the Originals) will have a greater understanding of the circumstances presenting themselves.

There isn't a substitute. Just because another forum was created doesn't mean this one is disavowed or hopeless.

cool..but i'm the new kid in pervytown so what does that mean for me ?

romanceismusic · Post by **romanceismusic** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:28 am

am i an origional?

i need to pay more attention.

and i agree with you lordgreystoke

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:29 am

Sorry about all the ranting tonight. I think I'm just a little touch deprived.... I am happiest when I have plenty of physical contact, and that's been pretty sparse for me for a while *sigh* So the rant is better than self-pity!

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:30 am

thejyav wrote:
rachelalexis wrote:
thejyav wrote:how do I get in on the hugfest
Why? Do you need a hug? *opens arms to offer one*
Accepts the hug...when is a hug not needed is the better question

Woohoo! A hug is always needed! I lurve hugs!

rachelalexis · Post by **rachelalexis** » Tue Nov 21, 2006 12:31 am

thejyav wrote:
Flautapantera wrote:
thejyav wrote: thats what i was wondering noodles are you trying to replace this pervy town?
The Party Thread cannot and will not be replaced by a new forum or thread. My hope is that those who were here longer (mostly the Originals) will have a greater understanding of the circumstances presenting themselves.

There isn't a substitute. Just because another forum was created doesn't mean this one is disavowed or hopeless.
cool..but i'm the new kid in pervytown so what does that mean for me ?

That means if you want to continue posting here you have to allow me to stalk you *shifty eyes*
That's the fun of being an original, you get to make up rules and your post count makes it look like you have authority