So, I'm pretty freaked...

Noelle · Post by **Noelle** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 9:50 pm

*do not read if you have a bad stomach for boring, silly, pointless drama.

Stupid boys and freshman whores.

So, I was at this HUGE party the other night. I am a wimp, and this guy I like wasn't dancing with anyone for the first, say...30 minutes of the whole thing. So, he's flirting with me a little bit, and all of my friends are trying to convince me to dance with him. Finally, I decide I will and turn around to find him dancing with a FRESHMAN WHORE. Not all freshmans are whores, but...Many are. So, I wait of another half hour and finally, he stops dancing with her and I get up the courage to ask him to dance. We do for about two songs. THEN, he randomly stops to say something to someone, and then starts dancing with the Freshman Whore again. So, then I'm over it and dancing with my friends. He comes up behind me and we start dancing again, not even saying ANYTHING, but he's singing Sexyback in my ear the whole time. Another few songs go by and he finds another reason to stop and dance with the other girl again. Of course, they dance the whole rest of the night and I dont even have a chance to jump in and tell him that I like him.
So then the dance is over and I'm at a friend's place and I call him up to tell him and CAN'T SAY ANYTHING, so I hang up. I call back a few minutes later, after rehersing to my friend a few times, and actually say it. Unfortunately my cell battery is dying and I left my charger at my other friend's place, so I tell him to leave a message if he wants to talk. When I finally figure out how to get my mesages off my voicemail without my cell, I find out that he left a message. It said, and I quote:
"So...Let's talk on Monday, in person. Bye." (hahaha)
So, now there's 9 or so hours till I see him and I'm nervous. I need ADVICE, though there isn't much advice to be given. I'm freaking out because I've liked him for two or so years, and just got out of a horrible relationship with a horrible person.
I have some work to do, but any advice that can be given for this situation will be loved and accepted thankfully.

quikstrike98 · Post by **quikstrike98** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 9:55 pm

Ehhh, all I know is that when I was in college I was frikking CLUELESS about some of the subtle advances women threw at me. I'd think about something a girl said/did a couple days later and realize, "Dumbass". If you don't out and out come out and say that you like him, he may not realize it. At least if he's as clueless as I was.

Flautapantera · Post by **Flautapantera** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 9:57 pm

Noelle wrote:*do not read if you have a bad stomach for boring, silly, pointless drama.

Stupid boys and freshman whores.

So, I was at this HUGE party the other night. I am a wimp, and this guy I like wasn't dancing with anyone for the first, say...30 minutes of the whole thing. So, he's flirting with me a little bit, and all of my friends are trying to convince me to dance with him. Finally, I decide I will and turn around to find him dancing with a FRESHMAN WHORE. Not all freshmans are whores, but...Many are. So, I wait of another half hour and finally, he stops dancing with her and I get up the courage to ask him to dance. We do for about two songs. THEN, he randomly stops to say something to someone, and then starts dancing with the Freshman Whore again. So, then I'm over it and dancing with my friends. He comes up behind me and we start dancing again, not even saying ANYTHING, but he's singing Sexyback in my ear the whole time. Another few songs go by and he finds another reason to stop and dance with the other girl again. Of course, they dance the whole rest of the night and I dont even have a chance to jump in and tell him that I like him.
So then the dance is over and I'm at a friend's place and I call him up to tell him and CAN'T SAY ANYTHING, so I hang up. I call back a few minutes later, after rehersing to my friend a few times, and actually say it. Unfortunately my cell battery is dying and I left my charger at my other friend's place, so I tell him to leave a message if he wants to talk. When I finally figure out how to get my mesages off my voicemail without my cell, I find out that he left a message. It said, and I quote:
"So...Let's talk on Monday, in person. Bye." (hahaha)
So, now there's 9 or so hours till I see him and I'm nervous. I need ADVICE, though there isn't much advice to be given. I'm freaking out because I've liked him for two or so years, and just got out of a horrible relationship with a horrible person.
I have some work to do, but any advice that can be given for this situation will be loved and accepted thankfully.

Oh, the highschool drama. I remember something like this happening to me during what I think was my sophomore year.

Well, I'm not really sure what to tell you. The best thing I would think to do is to prepare for what could happen, i.e. he isn't interested. Doesn't mean he dislikes you, perhaps he just wants to be friends.

I would tell him straight out what you feel but don't feel bad if he doesn't reciprocate. It isn't your fault and nothing is wrong with you.

Good luck but remember: slimy boys aren't worth our time anyway, chica.

Noelle · Post by **Noelle** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 10:00 pm

Si! Danka surne (sp) *is bad at languages*

Actually, during the second phone call, I told him I liked him. I was straight foreward and to the point, mostly because my phone was almost dead and none of my friends in the immediate area had his cell number. My phone died tragically moments later.

JerseyJohnny · Post by **JerseyJohnny** » Sun Oct 22, 2006 10:49 pm

Sounds to me like he's just not that into you. He might be interested in using you for sex though, so if you're OK with that then just be up front about it and I'm sure he'll be happy to get it on with you for a while before he finds someone better looking.

Nothing against you, I'm sure you're very nice and very pretty, but that's just how high school boys are.

EDIT: My advice to you is not to do anything sexual with him, you're way too young for that. You can really mess up your future.

Good luck.

Noelle · Post by **Noelle** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 6:03 am

Thanks JerseyJohnny!
Yeah, I'm off to meet him in a few minutes. Finished my essays and such, too, so I'm off to a decent start for the day. I convinced myself that he despised me last night, so I think I'm okay for rejection. *Bree nodd* But, if not, then I'll totally freak out and over react. Possibly even cry out of happiness. Well, I hafta go now. *nervousness*

WISH ME LUCK! I might be able to post in about 3 hours, but only a few posts, because we're not supposed to use the school computers for non-school buisness and I'm too lazy to bring my laptop. I don't think the school has wireless anyway....Too poor....

Hahaha, anyways...Mwwwah, byes!!!1

AutoPilate · Post by **AutoPilate** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 7:12 am

Noelle wrote:just got out of a horrible relationship with a horrible person

Well hello there!

Noelle · Post by **Noelle** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:06 am

*chough* What??? *doesn't get autopilot's previous statement*

Post by **Broken Kid** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:31 am

Noelle wrote:*chough* What??? *doesn't get autopilot's previous statement*

I think he was hitting on you due to your recent singleness...hard to tell though.

AutoPilate · Post by **AutoPilate** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:43 am

Joo said it, mang.

Flautapantera · Post by **Flautapantera** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 2:41 pm

AutoPilate wrote:
Noelle wrote:just got out of a horrible relationship with a horrible person
Well hello there!

That smiley rocks! I know a thread where that would get used quite often...

DontHaveAClue · Post by **DontHaveAClue** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 2:44 pm

Flautapantera wrote: That smiley rocks! I know a thread where that would get used quite often...

The thread which name is not to be spoken! or at least not with PG in the same sentence.

Post by **Broken Kid** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 2:49 pm

DontHaveAClue wrote:
Flautapantera wrote: That smiley rocks! I know a thread where that would get used quite often...
The thread which name is not to be spoken! or at least not with PG in the same sentence.

I know not of what you speak!

Noelle · Post by **Noelle** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 8:43 pm

So, he wasn't even THERE today, and I was running all over doing errands, taking care of the elderly, helping my teachers with stuff and working (stupid bs to help me get into a good college) , so I had absolutely no time to stop by his house and bring him soup. I called him 3 times during classes (teachers werent there, pointless work) and he got increasingly ill each time. I felt bad for bothering him by the last time. He says he'll be back tomorrow, and I really hope he is.
He's been flirting with me since way before, even last year before me and the Spawn of Satin broke up. I mostly flirted back becuase I liked him, but also because Spawn of Satin got uber jealous and stopped flirting with other girls enough to care.

spaciegirlreturn · Post by **spaciegirlreturn** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:17 pm

This thread makes me feel dirty. yuckie!

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