Darlin', I'm assuming the killing you people are your folkses? Them, you can honor... A boyfriend? Him, you can say - sorry, you don't own me, dear...
I haven't done rainbow things in a long time - cuz I'm happily going through regular colors in different ways. It was when my son was still in high school... School colors were green and gold, and when his basketball team went to the state finals, and the kiddo was a starter on the varsity team...and his mom kept the book...well, I had to go with a nice shade of green, didn't I?

Unfortunately, I don't know where that particular pic is, or I would definitely post it! <chuckle>
Right now I have a weave that I just keep having redone with different colors, so I have, probably, about 12...18...or so different shades...of brown, blonde, and red. Every time we change colors, I go with a different width, too. I like big, bold strips and stripes of color. Place I go, they think I'm nutty. And I'm in a really, really small town, so it's not real spendy, either...
Diane, or cher, or even chershaytoute, but "Hey, you!" works, too...
WWggD - let's make the Breeniverse a better place to live...
Thanks to giddeanx for the coolest personal glue stick ever!