Daniel, Bree would benefit from direct confrontation.
Posted: Tue Jan 23, 2007 7:59 am
Daniel,
Bree has been saying some very hurtful things lately. We are all concerned that she is losing touch with reality more and more. The depth of her ingratitude is amazing. I'm writing to you to suggest that you and Jonas have a confrontation (or intervention!) with Bree. If you do not, she is probably going to run off again, you're both going to want to chase her to keep her safe. You'll resent doing it the whole time because of the way she acts.. and quite frankly, she really doesn't have the maturity to be independent at this point in time, unfortunately.
Please don't react to what she is saying, either. I think she only made the video about "not hooking up with" you to throw off the order. She ended with a "Bad News Bears" reference. That's a comedy. That is usually a clue that the opposite is true. This is just something ApothosesisAZ and I have hypoothesized.
You've got to act like a grown-up if you want to help Bree grow up. After all, it IS a good sign that she is talking about going on with her life. Her insults of you and Jonas MAY BE projections of herself--and how SHE is fed up with herself being easily amused, etc.
Anyway, have compassion and understanding because of all this.. but I think if you love her or even just l'care, you (and possibly Jonas) need to confront her to her face, and not just make a video about your reactions.
Thanks.
Bree has been saying some very hurtful things lately. We are all concerned that she is losing touch with reality more and more. The depth of her ingratitude is amazing. I'm writing to you to suggest that you and Jonas have a confrontation (or intervention!) with Bree. If you do not, she is probably going to run off again, you're both going to want to chase her to keep her safe. You'll resent doing it the whole time because of the way she acts.. and quite frankly, she really doesn't have the maturity to be independent at this point in time, unfortunately.
Please don't react to what she is saying, either. I think she only made the video about "not hooking up with" you to throw off the order. She ended with a "Bad News Bears" reference. That's a comedy. That is usually a clue that the opposite is true. This is just something ApothosesisAZ and I have hypoothesized.
You've got to act like a grown-up if you want to help Bree grow up. After all, it IS a good sign that she is talking about going on with her life. Her insults of you and Jonas MAY BE projections of herself--and how SHE is fed up with herself being easily amused, etc.
Anyway, have compassion and understanding because of all this.. but I think if you love her or even just l'care, you (and possibly Jonas) need to confront her to her face, and not just make a video about your reactions.
Thanks.