Have you ever had a friend that let you down so?
Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 12:46 pm
Sometimes life is hard, Jonas.
For you, now is one of those times.
But you always have a choice! You don't ever have to do anything.
Even if someone holds a gun to your head - you can choose to die instead of what they tell you to do.
Jonas, act. don't react.
I know you are hurting, and I have sympathy for you...
You can't disregard your friends... but life gets so hard when you reach the end. (That's from a song by America, if anyone cares.)
They want to help... but everyone feels helpless right now. When you attack them out of frustration and anger it only makes them defensive.
Remember when Daniel had that thing going on with your aunt?
You told him it was a bad idea and that you didn't approve several times.
That didn't stop him though. He had to figure it out on his own.
Take a step back, please... Try to see things from Sarah, Taylor, or Daniel's point of view.
If you can't do that yet... well, go chop some wood, play foosball, and listen to music. It might actually do you some good to have a little time alone.
For you, now is one of those times.
But you always have a choice! You don't ever have to do anything.
Even if someone holds a gun to your head - you can choose to die instead of what they tell you to do.
Jonas, act. don't react.
I know you are hurting, and I have sympathy for you...
You can't disregard your friends... but life gets so hard when you reach the end. (That's from a song by America, if anyone cares.)
They want to help... but everyone feels helpless right now. When you attack them out of frustration and anger it only makes them defensive.
Remember when Daniel had that thing going on with your aunt?
You told him it was a bad idea and that you didn't approve several times.
That didn't stop him though. He had to figure it out on his own.
Take a step back, please... Try to see things from Sarah, Taylor, or Daniel's point of view.
If you can't do that yet... well, go chop some wood, play foosball, and listen to music. It might actually do you some good to have a little time alone.