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by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 4:19 pm
Forum: Get to Know Each Other
Topic: Party Thread (Archive VII)
Replies: 6364
Views: 204496

The SheikhBot wrote: Flauta-Flauta-Flauta-Flauta-Flautapantera
You come and go
You come and go
Loving would be easy
If your colours were like my dreams
Red, gold and green
Red, gold and green
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 4:12 pm
Forum: Get to Know Each Other
Topic: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you)
Replies: 3151
Views: 137002

Okay.

To maintain the moral character of this thread, I have to post this.

Image

I love old paperback covers. :)
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 3:54 pm
Forum: Get to Know Each Other
Topic: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you)
Replies: 3151
Views: 137002



I do...! Marquis de Sade! Oh god...I'm sorry...I'm a total history geek...


Imagine if he and Leopold Ritter von Sacher-Masoch got together... :twisted:

Ooooh, nelly!

I see Sacher-Masoch's name, and "nelly" takes on its slang meaning... "OMG, look at that bitch! He is so nelly!" :twisted:
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 3:35 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

If she's worth two sh*ts as a friend, you'd be able to tell her to stop being a c*nt without her getting mad....it's her fault anyway. I'd say something like, "Listen, you stupid whore....flake out me again and you can pretty much suck it. Don't fu*k with me, bitch. I'm over it." My friends would ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 3:05 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

Kasdeja wrote:She doesn't know the non doormat person, she knew the super nice person...I was trying to ease her into it, lol.
In this situation, Kas, I recommend you dropkick her into the new paradigm. :wink:
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:43 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

Kasdeja wrote:So...I should treat her like I do everyone else, lol.
Why play favorites? :lol:
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:41 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

Kas - I've been thinking and here's another way you could go. The next time she calls up wanting to do something just say this verbatim

"I would love to - just be aware that if you stand me up again I will come to your house and betchslap you upside your flakey-ass head"

What do you think? Too ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:38 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

Kasdeja wrote:It's just hard for me to turn my back on friends...see, that's a remnant of my doormat past I need to reckon with. I'm bold and blunt with everyone...except friends and such.
Friends and such sometimes accuse me of being callous or distant or calculating... :? :lol:
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:27 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

colbertnationgirl wrote:I think he was agreeing more with the effort part.
Yes, he was. :)
colbertnationgirl wrote:If she still doesn't show up, just don't bother. The friendship isn't worth it if she isn't willing to make an effort.
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:09 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: Would I be a doormat?
Replies: 45
Views: 3484

colbertnationgirl wrote:I'ld say call her a day or two before you are supposed to get together as a little 'friendly reminder.' If she still doesn't show up, just don't bother. The friendship isn't worth it if she isn't willing to make an effort.
What she said. :)
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:06 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: What would you do?
Replies: 54
Views: 3912

And, the male pride reference was a dig at you, dear.

I figured as much. It didn't quite register as a dig, though. We men are thick-skinned and thick-skulled. :lol:

I don't agree that someone who is an adult should be pampered.

I don't see the soft sell as pampering.

I don't agree that ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:44 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: What would you do?
Replies: 54
Views: 3912

Conflict is a necessary result of many decisions, to varying degrees...that doesn't mean you should avoid it.

Did I say that she should avoid it, or did I say that she should wait until a more opportune moment?

Avoiding conflict is a mistake.

Not always.

Facing it for the benefit of your ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:39 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: What would you do?
Replies: 54
Views: 3912

We do know some dynamics...as Z pointed out.

Would those dynamics lead you to believe that escalation of conflict is possible?

I believe that, because they are already tense and feeling under scrutiny, that yes, escalation of conflict is possible. That being said, her husband really needs to ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:36 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: What would you do?
Replies: 54
Views: 3912

They would lead me to believe that taking the money could prevent children getting taken away and/or losing a home.

I'll repeat the question, and I'll rephrase my suggestion as another question.

Do you think that conflict is possible? If so, would it be preferable to resolve the situation in ...
by Sheikh Gomelez
Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:31 pm
Forum: Off the Cuff
Topic: What would you do?
Replies: 54
Views: 3912

Kasdeja wrote:We do know some dynamics...as Z pointed out.
Would those dynamics lead you to believe that escalation of conflict is possible?

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